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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi $$$ and welcome to our forum.
The only suggestion I can offer is that you be honest with your partner and tell her how you feel - she may even be feeling similar emotions. Getting your fear out in the open, by literally telling her "I'm feeling unsure of myself here because I'm worried that I may not be able to please you...." makes it so much easier to deal with. There's nothing wrong with acknowledging that you're feeling vulnerable or scared. Think of sex as being a conversation between two people - the more honest and sincere the conversation is, the better the connection. Literally.
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