Our expert says:
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi to you JL and thanks for posting. Falling in love with someone who's not available to you - such as someone who's married, or straight, or living in another city such as Hollywood - needs to be nipped in the bud before it becomes a pattern and possibly a way of dealing with a fear of intimacy. You can't live in a fantasy world - get real by taking a hard look at the situation, and as Des says, making a point of meeting other guys who will be more available to you in terms of a real intimate relationship. Your infatuation is keeping you from forming a functional and satisfying sexual and emotional relationship with someone else.
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