Our expert says:
Who places you |in the middle of this " ? You may be right that your faher has a personality disorder, narcissistic or otherwise, but that doesn't help much, other than to suggest he's really unlikely to change.
Youy need a legal opinion as to whether your father is entitled to block you mother's request for a divorce, and to whether she could hope to get any form of maintenance if she did. Can her brothers provide her with any sort of support ? Its fare enough to insist that he give her a divorce and proper support / maintenance as a condition of giving him access to your home and children. But make sure he signs a binding and irreversible agreement to do so, and the legal document should not make access to your home and children a condition of anything. The children must keep the right to not see him, if they so wish.
Such people often cry real tears, as though they may have no interest in other people's feelings, they feel deep and sincere pity for themselves.
Why do you worry that the children are unsafe in his company ?
I don't comment on religious issues, but I don't think Christianity requires one to give blanket forgiveness to unrepentant and repeated, glad sinners, and why is it only the guilty who insist that they must not be judged ? I am certain that no religion requires one to indulge a sinner and help him to hurt people
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