Our expert says:
I hear clearly how much you feel the need of more love and support from your husband. How much love and support have you been giving him in this difficult time ? How much are you there for him ? He's doing unpleasant extra work to try to solve your financial problems, and you want to go out with friends ? And flirting on a chat site ?
COuld you be doing some extra work, too, to help ends meet AND, perhaps enabling both of you to do a little less of the extra work and spend more time together ? YOu seem to be assuming that he should do whatever extra work is needed so you can take the "water and food" for granted. It matters, of course, when you have had a hard day --- what about his hard days ? DO you support him about those, too ? IN other words, do you do, for him, what you expect him to do for you ? Isn't working extra to pay your bills a sign of love ( and an awful lot more love than anyone flirting on a chat site will ever give you ) ? I hear that you feel unhappy --- how happy does he feel ? Why dopes it sound, from your message, that only your happiness should count ?
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