Our expert says:
You're describing extremely normal reactions, both to a pregnancy, and to a rift in a relationship. Yes, this degree of stress and lack of food and sleep, isn't good for you or the baby, and you do seem to be focussing excessively on the man, rather than your needs and those of the baby. Yes, it would be a most excellent idea for you to see a counsellor as soon as possible, to help work through your feelings and decisions, to have someone to talk with in depth, and to calm down somewhat. Can't your Mom or some mutual friend contact him, let him know how desperate you have become, and find out what's happening with him ?
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