Our expert says:
Isn't i wise to get to know each other REALLY well before having a child ? And someone who grooves and jols with others all the time has no intention of being faithful or even reliable towards you. In terms of our African traditions, isn't lobola meant to be, to represent, much more than just a financial transaction ? He seems to have no respect for it. COuld you persuade him to join you in marriage counselling, to see if things can be improved, even if he sees it mainly as dealing with whatever problem he experiences with you --- any good counsellor will deal with everything that's relevant
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