Our expert says:
So, you're describing a really awful person, selfish, uncaring ( for her own child, for instance ), and happy to defraud your dad.
She needs to learn about contraception. When the father of her second child refused to admit it was his child, she could have gone to maintenance court and the court could have ordered a blood test to prove whether he was the father, and then she would have been able to compel him to pay maintenance.
You have nothing in life that you didn't work for, and should feel proud of yourself and ignore this spiteful and unpleasant person. You owe her nothing. Avoid spending time with her and expect nothing from her.
Ignore the silly and cruel things she says, and leave her to herself. She may be spiralling out of control, but it is impossible for anyone to help her until and unless she admits sincerely that she has messed up and needs help ; and when that miracle occurs, let someone else take on the task of helping her.
Cut her from your life, and enjoy the good life you are making with your child
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