Our expert says:
This is diffcult to answer because only your boyfriend knows what is going on. There are a number of possible reasons for such changes: he could be under stress/pressure from work or some other source (eg. family, friends, finances, etc) and/or depressed (depression is a major cause of loss of sexual interest). Conflict or dissatisfaction in the relationship could also impact on the quality of your sexual activity together (e.g. if he feel unimportant, if he is unsure about the relationship, if you fight a lot, etc). It sounds like he needs to wake up to the impact of his behaviour and to either be willing to explore and confront his own issues honestly, or to address the relationship factors if relevant. If you keep on allowing him to avoid this matter, your frustration and dissatisfaction is likely to only continue and make the situation worse for both of you.
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