Our expert says:
Sounds like he was a despicable man, anyone would have been glad to see the end of.
She probably would not accept a suggestion that she see a counsellor, but by her continuing hatred she is keeping him alive, and maintaining him as a force in your home and your lives.
She may be technically an adult, but if she can't support herself, she's not truly independent.
Don't even accept the suggestion that you are like your late father - that's just a private swearword she uses to hurt you.
Of course you control the groceries which you buy and pay for.
The idea of telling her to manage her food alone on her pension is tempting ( though on her own it would have to pay for much more than food ), but I wonder whether at her age she has the capacity to learn ?
Truth's commwents make a lot of sense, though There also raises important issues of exploring actual costs.
I am not aware o any law that would FORCE children to care for their parents or pay maintenance. Enforcing subsidy to people who wasted all their own money and are then busy wasting someone else's is nonsense and damages your own human rights.
As for the car, is she really a safe enough driver to keep her driver's license ?
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