Our expert says:
How genuinely did you two "part the ways"? Why did you choose to remain in close friendly contact with your ex, especially after he was married ? Why did you break up in the first place ?
He married a year later, and had children - that's a lot more than "on the rebound". And now he is being emotionally unfaithful to his present wife, and can't be investing to the extent that he should in that relationship, while he is hanging onto you. His wife sounds naive. If "everybody" knows you're btoh still in love, why doesn't she ?
You ARE already "the other woman". If he is so fun, good, kind, and universally loved why did you two ever part at all ?
If he has problems with his wife, he should discuss these with her, not you, and they should see a marriage counsellor together, and try to sort these out. If this proves imposible, and they decide to get divorced, leave them to make those decisions and actions on their own. AFTER a divorce, you would be free to make contact with him again, and see if you both still want to start all over again.
If he is still talkin g intimately with you about all this, and not seing a counsellor with his wife, the he is NOT "trying to make it work.
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