Our expert says:
Well, at least some of our readers visit in the same sort of mood ! Your heartfelt complaint sounds remarkably like another we received this week ( look back in the messages of the Forum ).
I wonder about the significance of your husband now comparing you to his mother. How does he compare you favourably or unfavourably ? From the sound of it, you would not want to be at all like her, though from most men, any comparison to his mom is actually a copmpliment or meant as one. And apparenly, it's not that you hate his mom, but you understandably hate some of her behaviour, when she upsets or is rude to you.
Best bet would be to wait till the dust has settled after this latest quarrel, and then tell him you want him to join you in seeing a marriage counsellor to wort out this mother issue once and for all.
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