Our expert says:
You've been through a lot, understandably distressing. But this may not be the right time for insisting on independence --- staying with your family could help you regain stability, psychologically and financially, to prepare yourself to become securely and successfully independent again. Do you really need another change of job AT THIS STAGE ? Later, maybe. But for now, changing things that don't absoluttely HAVE to be changed isn't a great idea. YOu don't need a boyfriend now, either --- another nunneeded complication. YOU are valid, good and great on your own, without needing any man in your life to make you more. When you are well and secure, you can again become independent, and then think about whether the right man can contribute to your life.
When you're feeling that everything is plunging out of control, this is no time to give up a job or move cities yet again. Rebuild first.
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