Our expert says:
chichi. I fully understand your feelings of anger and betrayal, towards a man who has been unfair to both you and this other woman, and has risked your life through his promiscuity ( and, depending on her HIV status, possibly risked the life of her and the child, too ). it would be understandable for you to decide to leave him. Leave him, and keep yourself HIV negative. Be thankful that you did not have a child with him. Leave him to sort out the messes he has created.
Call your local HIV support line ( or check with the psychologist you saw ) about a nearby relevant support group. But if you are HIV negative, surely it's not an HIBV support group you need, but a basic counsellor, to help you ?
There is no need to be kindly towards a man who has betrayed at least two women and two children ( you don't know how many more their might be, still unknown to you --- and if she is HIV negative, then he caught HIV from at least one oher partner ). and who has been lying to you and misleading you.
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