Our expert says:
Any relationship needs to be based on respect. Both you and your partner need to respect each other's wishes and learn to compromise on others. This would also include respecting each other's sexual needs and the recognition that you may have a discrepency of desire and sexual needs. However, through simple changes, both partners can be satisfied. If your husband is feeling in the mood for sex and if you dont, you can compromise by masturbating him for example or even giving him oral sex. That way, he is satisfied and you do not need to be forced into sex. Furthermore, you can surprise him with hand-jobs infront of the tv for spontaneous fun. In acknowledging your needs, maybe you can invite him into the shower with both of you washing each other which will later result in sex as both of you will be sufficiently aroused, clean and with a high degree of spontaneous fun.
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