Our expert says:
What on earth is he spending all the money on ? And is the money he is wasting his own earnings and savings, or your earnings ? You probably need a legal opinion ( check, there may be a free law clinic at your nearest Law School ) - but maybe you need to arrange for your own salary to be paid into a new accoun which only you can operate, so he can't waste it.
There may be some technical legal issues relating to HOW yopu are married, as to whether you are entitled to keep your own earnings and have your own account without him interfering, but you probably do have that right.
And if he is indeed wasting your money on unnecessary spending, you may need to consider divorce or at least separaion and living elsewhere. You have to get a proper understanding of your legal rights and obligations, to plan properly. And if you fear he may be violent in response to you asserting your rights, call POWA or some similar agency helping abused women, to check out your safest options.
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