Our expert says:
Sorry, but I was assured that this forum was CLOSED due to technical problems that are making my life a nightmare, and which haven't been fixed in over a month. So it's purely by chance that I checked and discovered your message. Folks PLEASE STOP POSTING questions until this is fixed ! After this message I WILL ANSWER NO OTHERS until the forum is fixed, permanently. <br>You seem to be describing what will become an increasingly unhappy relationship, unless something drastic changes occur. Maybe his bad relationship habits arise from prior bad experiences, but they are, in turn, creating bad experiences for you. <br>It is NEVER acceptable in a relationship for anyone to expect their partner to forsake all other friendships, or to be so paranoid and controlling. You're not being at all selfish, in your entirely reasonable wishes --- he is being selfish and thoughtles in putting you in such a position. Don't get married to someone with such a huge load of emotional baggae and such selfish and unreasonable behaviours. He is not acting in such a way as to deserve your love. <br>If you have genuine loving feelings for this other guy, who you have known for much longer and thuis presumably can feel much more sure of, why not m,ove in that direction ? Your current bf has not, from your description behaved in any way so as to better your own interests, rather than for his own convenience --- why must it matter what he thinks about you pursuing your own happiness ?
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