Our expert says:
What can I say, bw ? Sounds like a vain, insecure, hypocritical show-off. Nobody else will ever get any more love or anything else ) from him than you have --- he's primarily in love with himself. He will never show much interest in the woman actually with him, but will always be looking over her shoulder, hoping that someone else will be watching him and admiring him, as much as he adores himself. Shame, how pathetic. Maybe he's getting a bit deaf with his age, so he doesn't hear the people that laugh at him ?
I agree with the others --- why on earth are you still with this preening prig ? He's far too young to be married.
And his paranoid and threatening response when you had the good sense to leave him shows his insecurity ( if so many women actually adored him, he's be with them right now, not haunting you ). But don't tolerate the harassment --- call the police and go to court to get a restraining order, and if he breaks it by threatening or approaching you in any way, he can go to jail and try to keep his shoes polished while in there. Zee is right, this sort of guy can be so unbalanced as to become dangerous. And call POWA for urther personal advice and support on this.
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