Our expert says:
It sounds as though he had much less of a relationship with you than you had with him, and care very much less about the relationship than you did. The cause for the separation seems to lie mainly or entirely within hi. Yes, you do need to move on, and a counsellor may be able to help you to do this more efficiently. Much of the problem may lie not in your adjusting to the loss of much that you actually had, but in giving up on the loss of what you had hoped for, imagined, and thought you had
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