Our expert says:
There's nothing wrong with mothers in general, but this one may need some assistance. Its silly for your folks to refuse the Christmas invitation "because they don't know anyone" therec--- this is the way for them to get to know everyone there.
Sounds rather like she is so hookd on being the Big Mom she was to you when you were children, and perhapsd finds her life now rather empty, so she wants so far as possible to recreate the situatiopn of your dependency on her.
Don't let the emotional blackmail work. And maybe a talk with her about how, as the child already has a mother, her role as a Grandmother is vitally important --- and exploring what each of you think that role might be ?
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