Our expert says:
Sounds like he has an important choice to make. Some mothers, even if intellectually they think they're different, emotionally they can feel such a strong emotional bond to their son, that they don't allow themselves to recognize any other woman as good enough for him. Handy advice from been there, worth re-reading !
It's a key concept that she needs to realize that whatever she does, is not going to be allowed to succeed in breaking up you two --- that her choice isn't --- cuddle sonnyboy forever, or lose him totally ; her choice is actually between -- being adult about this and having a good mature relationship with married sonny and his wife, or lising him completely. The eternal cuddle isn't an option. Success at this depends on whether he has been able to grow up enough to be adult about this himself, and to work with you on giving his mom the message she needs, and avoiding the cuddle-trap
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