Our expert says:
One tends to wonder what has changed recently to have led to such a drastically different and more hostile attitude towards you and your relationship with your partner. I wonder whether, though you say she is "very old school, but despite it she said that she accepts our relationship." whether maybe she thought you were just two good friends, and maybe recently the penny dropped about an actual lesbian relationship --- and that she's more old school and less accepting of that, than you thought. It's not the sort of thing you may have spelled out very explicitly to her, and she may have preferred to see things in a way she found more acceptable, then either in her own throughts or after something, maybe even something very innocent, someone else may have said, she suddenly recognized what it was all about, and this is the Old School reacting ( and protecting it's sense of propriety and funds !). If she doesn't get to heaven, it'll be more likely because of holding an unChristian and hostile attitude towards others, than because of her daughter's sexual orientation.
Can the two of you find a way to minimise contact and hence conflict with her, while perhaps with time the srength of her hostility might fade ?
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