Our expert says:
Sounds like you actually dont know enough about this guy, way less than enough to have allowed yourself to fall pregnant by him. Yes of course he should have told you everything relevant, but didn't you rather assume you were makin an informed decision, without sufficient information ?
It doesn't make sense to quit his job because he isn't earning enough, and instead choose to have zero honest earnings, and to assume that illicit earnings will be higher and problem free. And how seriously is he actually looking for a better paying legit job ?
You may end up being judged by some for your liaison with a crook, more than for breaking with a many who proved to be much less of a man than you had been led to believe. Would you really be in any way a WORSE woman for breaking with someone who prefers illicit acivities to honest work ?
As Maria says, better a father out of sight, than one visibly in jail. And do make sure you can't in any way be considered an accomplice.
Ues, you have made some lousy decisions, but you can learn from that and not make similar mistakes again. Make sure both bio fathers are required by the Maintenance court to pay proper maintenance for their children.
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