Our expert says:
Interesting, isn't it, that a control freak should allow herself to become dependent on a substance, alcohol, that will always greatly diminish her ability to be in control of herself, let alone anything else.
But such a person actually has little power beyond what you choose to give her, and probably relies on your politeness and unwillingness to protest or oppose her, to exert her power. You did not need to accept the gift of the dogs. It was not wise to choose to live so close to her, was it ?
This is a problem that has to be resolved with your fiancee, and settled before any wedding. Does he not recognize that she is a problem and causes problems ? What does he suggest as a way of dealing with thios, other than just surrendering to her and acepting everything she wishes ? Maybe some sessions of pre-marital couples counselling are urgently needed ?
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