Our expert says:
Sounds like you're noticing the difference between a girl and a woman, and between someone who provides eye-candy for others, and someone whose broad intelligence and personality is rich and complex and worth living with long-term. Have you been giving her opportunities to show whether she is woman-like ?
Drugs like coke ( and of course alcohol ) are talented a releasing negative emotions, without solving the underlying problems. Hope the marriage works out for them. Are you thinking that his accumulated fury over the previous experiences of being badly let down, are in fact making it more likely he will get let down again, or let himself down, and that he has continuing problems trusting ( and maybe with being trustworthy ? ) ?
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