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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi Wonder-Ma-Net, welcome to the forum and thanks for posting here. Like Deeve, I recall your previous post regarding discrimination by your daughter's landlord? At that time I think I referred you to a gay student organisation at Pretoria University? Either way, your very sincere care, compassion and concern for your daughter is evident.
Your post has already received great responses to which I can add very little. Remember that your daughter needs to learn from her own mistakes and her own experiences. By presenting as being too 'punitive' you stand the risk of alienating her. I'm wondering whether her girlfriend isn't a bit manipulative, and your daughter possibly a touch too dependent on her?
Your daughter is very young and even if she was straight is it possible that her relationships would be quite complex. I must disagree with you about same-sex relationships being unstable and lacking security, however. Not all same-sex relationships are tempestuous.
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