Our expert says:
Absolutely right that no form of counselling is of the slightest value unless the individual particupates sincerely, with a genuine intention of changing for the better, and puts into direct life practice whatever they have learned in the counselling sessions. ANd in marriage counselling, that clearly has to apply to BOTH partners. But I am curious about the defiant statement : "To hell with therapy or marrriage counselling. I am never seeing a marriage counsellor coz I am comfortable with myself." From what I recall of your previous message, I would think that being far too comfortable with yourself is your problem ( and a major problem for anyone who was unwise enough to love you ) and will increasingly obviously be your tragedy in life. <br>You seem to take no responsibility whatever for your actions. You are not young. You are behaving, pathetically, like someone 10 to 20 years younger than you are. No, your partying isn't a sin, it's a truly pathetic tragedy, a life devoted to emptiness and worthless activity. Maybe if you bothered to treat your husband and children ( I notice you barely mention them, presumably they'd just spoil the endless party ? ) with real respect, you could find they're not grumply or dull. <br>Unless you change ( and you won't till you have the courage to face the selfish and empty person you have become ) you are destined, much sooner than you think, to be a bitter, sad and very lonely older person.
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