Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
Instead of being overwhelmed with anxiety, as you clearly are, take yourself by the hand and go get HIV counselling and a blood test. If one does not know the status of the man or of yourself, there is always a risk.. more so for other STI's other than HIV. your specific situation is a low risk one ,as you describe it. Be aware that a man's pre cum carries as much HI virus as semen he ejaculates so this is not a safe way to have protective sex.
And by the way being fine a month later is no indication of being HIV/STI free. The problem with HIV and many STI's is that one can be symptom free for years.
Please go for that counsellign and test. And then go get educated about HIV/STI and safer sex.
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