Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
You have a very healthy approach to the relationship you want to entertain with the father of your child and wanting to remain on friendly is the best thing you can offer your child. His behaviour is indeed unstable and has no boundaries.
It's important that you make your boundaries clear i.e that you want a friendly relationship for your son's sake and that is it. You can also remind him that he is married and it is not appropriate behaviour to have in front of your son.
If you feel that it may take some time before it "sinks" in it may a good idea to just ask a friend or a family over when there will be a pick up or perhaps start organising the pick ups in a neutral public place.
But the most important is, be clear with what you want to communicate and remain consistent and cordial.
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