Our expert says:
From the sound of it, pregnancy is possible, though not likely - it is essential to arrange for proper pregnancy testing. A home pregnancy test is a reasonably accurate first step, but the result, positive or negative, should be checked at a clinic by proper tests.
Only when you know for sure whether she is pregnant, can you, between you, plan what to do next. Deal with the facts, not only with fears.
Maybe it's not hel[pful to tell pour parents that she MIGHT be pregnant - if she IS pregnant, they will need to know, and you will need to plan, with her, what to do.
And though your mom might not like the idea of your having an affair with someone of a different religion, that sort of upset does not cause illness in her. Either she has a real illness with some different cause, or her "illness" is a representation of her distress - and its not uncommon in situations like these, for a mother to use her complaints of ill-health to make you feel extra guilty, and to push you to comply with her wishes.
If she is pregnant, see a counsellor together, to examine your options and choose what is best for yourselves and the child.
If she is not pregnant, and, indeed, even if she is, then you must both urgently learn all about birth control and how to avoid pregnancy until you are in a stable relationship and ready to lovingly raise children. And whatever your romantic relationship, abstinence is still a most excellent policy.
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