Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
I wonder how much childhood abuse you received or witnessed. I wonder how much abuse you have experienced in your adult life. Your reaction to men is not intellectual- it is raw emotion, pained negative emotion. I can have a healthy distant intellectual dismay of the behaviour of many men towards women, children and other men. But I am able to hold it in context. You don't seem to be able to hold it in an impersonal space.
I think you have turned the political into a personal issue. Or rather the political into a personal issue. You are struggling with something bigger than you. I urge you to get some professional counselling. You have distanced yourself from your husband and he from you. Go get the help you deserve.
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