Our expert says:
This sort of extreme curiosity about exactly what happened seems quite common, and would seem more likely to increase the pain. And it's an unavoidable fact that after 8 years you're unlikely to remember details --- as you can tell him, that's in part a mark of how relatively unimportant what happened was, to you. Remembering more accurately, and giving him more details, really isn't what's needed. What you both need, is to get actively and sincerely involved in marriage counselling, to sort this out and make that marriage worjk, and he will there be able to udnerstand that this excessive curiosity won't help either of you.
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