Our expert says:
Presumably he was not forced to marry youi at gun-point, was he ? In which case it was essentially a mutual decision in which he agreed, so complaining that his current unhappiness within the marriage is some awful punishment is illogical and immature. But do realise that when, within a relationship, someone gets really angry, they tend to grab at whatever is the most hurtful thing they can think of, to say, rather than searching for truth to blurt out.
If he does indeed have such profoundly suspicious messages on his phone, it does indeed strongly suggest that he is having an affair or more, and its not at all uncommon for a cheating spouse to complain loudly of the innocent partner, both to try to divert attention from their infidelity, and to try to invent some excuse for their own bad behaviour.
Maybe insist that he join you in marriage counselling to see if anything better could be worked out between you, or, if he refuses, consult a good lawyer to represent your interests and those of your child.
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