Our expert says:
Sounds like utter nonsense that he felt it was compulsory to drive around in a BMW when someone else is paying for it ! Beggars can't be chosers, was the old saying, but apparently he is. And if he and his late wife got their affairs into such a huge mess, don't expect him to be likely to be able to pay this back. If to any extent you are to be involved in paying for this ridiculous luxury, take legal steps to ensure that you don't contribute a penny towards it. It's not in the least selfish to expect to be consulted about such a stupid decision. NOBODY ever NEEDS a BNW, whether or not they want one. And what's wrong with his parents that they suddenly can't afford to pay off their house ? Can nopbody in his family manage their financial affairs at all ?
Charity starts at home, and first of all he needs to work with you on the foundations of your marriage, and not on undertaking endless payments for his feckless family. Consult a lawyer and make absolutely sure that your financial interests, both personally and within this marriage, are fully protected.
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