Our expert says:
SOunds like you're actually doing rather well, but that your counsellor needs to buck up a bit and not make you feel like a guilty party. We could all be better, at least theoretically, than we are, but you're handling your burdens pretty well, and should be given some kudos for that.
There certainly are happy mariages of the sort you yearn for. Maybe one thing to try to take from counselling, is a better understanding of how you could avoid such situations in the future.
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