Our expert says:
His running away confirmed so much, including that he is immature and not man enough to face problems or sincerely try to solve them.
And for him to continue to harass and blame you for his wrong-doing is pathetic. Wise to have the Protection Order. What's his enormous hurry to get the divorce ?
Don't change your mind or "forgive" him, as this conduct is unforgiveable. And don't feel sorry for him - he chose to create this situation.
Congratulations on your own sensible and firm behaviours. You deserve to be free of him. But don't forget to go to the maintenance court and ensure that he has to continue paying maintenance for the child till the child is independent - so he will learn that such behaviour creates costs, and he will be discouraged from doing this again, and for the child's sake.
Oh, and Loveless ? COntinue to be cautious. I have known lesbians who have treated their partners in the same way.
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