Our expert says:
It surly sounds as if she has been unfair not to admit this before now, and to do so in a rather unhelpful way. Shouldn't the two of you become involved in marriage counselling, to better understand yourselves, each other, and the situation ? This step doesn't require you two to stay together, but at least then, if you do decide to split, it can be on more rational grounds, and with a better capacity in each of you to avoid reaching such a situation again, and managing a less bitter and damaging parting this time.
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