Our expert says:
Sorry, but you're not going mad at all. But you are falling for a line of rubbish from this self-centred guy. Your relatonship with him was, and is, OVER. Don't by the crock of spit he's selling you that you're somehow unfair to him because you didn't spend the year in a nunnery, waiting for him to change his mind. It's not your fault that he's being immature and silly. How he chooses to feel about you is his responsibility, not yours -- and you've done nothing in this year to influence it.
if I were you, I'd change my phone number, and tell him to stop calling --- that he left, you have gone on with your life and are very happy without him, and don't want or need him back in your life, but you wish him well in finding a new relationhip with anyone except you. Don't dither, which would only make it harder for both of you --- ake it clea that it's over, ans as they say in the rules of all competitions you might enter "No corespondence will be entered into about the results of the contest".
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