Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Just Saying! | 2013/02/07 Maintenance and sole custody question I have a standing divorce order , my ex are suppose to pay school fees and medical aid, he refuses to pay maintenance for my daugther or school fees, he keeps on making excuses that he has a business and no money is coming in or he must first pay this or that account., he runs for everyting to attorneys.What is my legal right regarding this I am struggling now since October, he was suppose to pay half of the registration money and he must pay half of the school fees, there is no medical aid and I am in the process of going on a medical aid, but I just can not afford the bill, he does not reply or get his fiance to phone me to explaine, I am sorry but she is not his laywer, any advise I am really financialy strapped because of this. I am paying everything out of my own pocket, He does not pay a thing, a hig school girl of 15 cost a lot of money, he is really something else, he does not pay maintenance for his other children to with his second ex wife. what is the process to get sole custody , he said he is going to write her off , he does not want to be seen as her dad any more.please any advise will do, I am at wits end.thanks Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 1 Our users say: Posted by: JM | 2013/02/12 Take your divorce order that states he has to pay these items to court, along with proof that you''ve paid it, and your childs birth certificate to your local maintenance court.I''m afraid that is your last resort. Maintenance court is not pleasant, but at least they will look into matters and make a court ruling. Reply to JM Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Could I be pregnant? Connection between shock and bloodsugar levels? Diabetic partner, will I conceive? Problems at work Problem with my vagina How to help my son skin dimpling on my breast Can I give my dog allergex? Problems at work Feets Problems Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? Contramyl XR vs. Concerta How do I remove poop stains around my anus? Girlfriend does not enjoy sex as much as she used to Can my GP prescribe Concerta/Strattera advertisement From our sponsors Win a R1 500 hamper with Alpecin Hypertension Consumer Fact Sheet Understanding diabetes self-management WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal voucher!