Our expert says:
I'm surprised that other readers haven't commented here yet. If the boy is happy visiting your ex's parents, maybe that's important, though maybe he could visit them less often --- and you could speak to them and say pleasantly that he feels uneasy when they ask him questions about how things are going at home, so could they rather not do this. As you get on well with skoonpa, maybe discuss this with him and see how he could help. And if your ex isn't paying maintenance, as h should, go and discuss this with the folks at the family court / magistrate's court, and get a court order requiring him to pay enough for he child's maintenance, including afterschool/daycare as needed.
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