Posted by: Lost | 2004/10/06

Love sucks

hi, i'm a 22 year old female and about 2 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year. i did love him for the first 6-8 months and then he started acting weird and was so selfish, that i sort of fell out of love with him (if that is possible). the problem is that i don't know how i'm supposed to feel if i love someone romantically.

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Sometimes love sucks, sometimes it blows, and sometimes it's just fine. It is never guaranteed to be marvellous all the time or every time. I wonder how your ex bf feels about these events. Might he think it was you who began acting "weird and selfish" ?

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Posted by: Beyond | 2004/10/07

Hi Lost,
You know you are still young and will experience various kinds of love, each person you fall in or out of love with is different and the love you feel for that person will be different as well. When you know in your heart that you want to be with someone all the time, when they are not with you and you feel alone, you feel as if a part of you is missing, then you love completely, but don't rush it, let it grow, love can grow just as it can disappear. The fact that you sort of feel out of love was because he changed and then you do, it does happen. Give yourself time and love yourself and then love will happen and come your way.
Take Care.

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