Posted by: larita | 2007/07/11

love nt sure?

am in love with this man whom i have dated almost 2yrs,
now got his child he supports his child & we are happy together & in love
sees me almost every weekend at my house. i love him greatly
but i sometimes feel i need to leave him for i have my first child
whom i leave too with her and he says nothing about
her which makes me doubt if hes comfortable with me
i need to have someone who will accept my two kids and show
concern to both of them
although the dad of ma second child is shows no problem with
helping me when i tell him of ma problems.
He is always there finacially , emotionally and i am not sure if
finding ma own man to marry me will make me happy for am happy,
with him although he is married and i knew from the beginning.
i love him and he says he cares & love me too.
sometimes i feel i should move out of this relationship,
find ma own man.
he plays a good father to ma kid & a good lover &
husband to me although not married to him yet.

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Posted by: Echelle | 2007/07/11

To people like her YES! You can shame on me all you want, but I have absolutely no respect for someone like her!

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Posted by: Lilly | 2007/07/11

Echelle you really need some manners! Do you always talk down to people like that? Shame on you........

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Posted by: Echelle | 2007/07/11

The next time you post a question I'm not even going to read it, it's frustrating to make out what you're saying sometimes!

Anyway, good luck with your way of thinking, don't think you'll come far with it. Your "partner in crime" knows that you're this stupid and that's why he stays with his wife and still enjoying the affair with you!

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Posted by: larita | 2007/07/11

i would accept, for we all know men are polygomous creature in nature.
This days of Aids is better our men have specified women they sleep with rather than.
having numerous partners.
i didnt say i was sad am happy.
ii have good reasons as to why he is still with her wife and he is not happy but him being loyal &
community contious he's still with her but for sure the wife has been dogging him even before he started
seeing me.
he confessed he has never had extra marital affairs and the only ladies in his life are her and me.
i would never feel bad if ma man id seeing another woman if we dont love each other but stay together for other reasons not to be seen apart.

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Posted by: Echelle | 2007/07/11

Oh for crying out loud! Are you dumb? I even have to read like a 7 year old to know what you're saying. But anyway, you should stay away from married men before you even love him, is that higher grade for you, or must I explain it to you in some other way? So it would not be cruel if you and him were married and another lady did what you did? Would you accept it?

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Posted by: larita | 2007/07/11

i didnot tell ma hear or bosy to feel this way. we fell in love like anyother persons who fall in love.
i wasnt trying to be cruel but being human.
we have feelings beyond our control.
if it could be easy to let it go then i could do but both of us fel this way.
am sorry i am not cruel at all

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Posted by: Echelle | 2007/07/11

And how cruel of you to do that to another woman!

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Posted by: larita | 2007/07/11

how rude of you

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