Our expert says:
Sorry, but I really don't understand how or why people choose to get themselves into messes like this. You have two children by different fathers. Apparently the father of the first is no longer in the picture, and the second one you chose to have with a married man , and had no right to expect him to abandon his wife ( and any children he may have by her ) to live with or marry you. And as you already knew that as a married man he was happy to cheat with you, even if he had divorced his wife and married you, you could have expected him to cheat on you as well. How can you expect him to"commit fully" to you, by expecting him to ignore his existing committments to his marriage ? If he is providing maintenance and love for his child, you are extremely lucky. But you can't expect married men to marry you. And if there's a sense of hunting for another man to support you and your two children, that may be unrealistic. However, in terms of relationships, do look for a man who is NOT already married, and who doesn't mind having an instant family with your two children, and who actually loves you freelly
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