Our expert says:
Gosh, it took 3 years before you found out he was already married ? Sounds as though you were left feeling lonely and instead of protecting your vulnerability, you rushed into a new relationship without the degree of care and cauion you needed and deserved. It sounds as though the second guy was a hel who lied to you and simply used you. Maybe a counsellor could help you to learb to be more discerning next time round, and to avoid letting yourself be exploited.
You were trusting and incautious ; a counsellor could helpm you be more cautious, to prevent being used like that again, but without being too cautious so as to miss out on potentially pleasing relationships in the future
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