Our expert says:
People don't change much, and then only if they really profoundly want to, and work at it with professional expert help. And you have discovered the fallacy of going back to a marvellous past ( which at the time was never ever as marvellous as it might seem to be, in retrospect ). I think it was the Amwerican author Thomas Wolfe who wrote a book called "You Can't Go Home Again" including this powerful theme. You are wise to have recognized this, and to have achieved closure. You may even manage to be friendly towards her, and especially the children, without seeking to recapture a relationship that ended for good reasons
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