Our expert says:
I am sure that it has made you feel very sad that someone you are becoming close to is going to potentially move away. Ultimately the only person that can make the decision is the guy himself, and the reasons for leaving, if he does, will be many and not because he doesn’t want to be with you.
What is important for you is that you tell him how you feel, because if you don’t you will always wonder what might have happened if you didn’t tell him. He can then be open with you about the decisions he needs to make, because I am sure it is not an easy decision for him either to consider relocating.
What is important to remember is that whilst you do have very strong feelings for him right now, if things don’t work out and he needs to leave you will find happiness with others at a later stage. Of course you can’t just transfer your feelings onto someone else, and it will take time. But speak with him first, and go from there.
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