Our expert says:
It sounds as though you have been becoming a bit obsessed with this guy, who you actually haven't ever met, who doen't know who you are, and almost certainly can't have the feeling for you that you have been developing for him. This is not the basis for a good relationship, is it ? And as the guy you know who seems to know him ( they were merely standing together at a party, and might not even know each other ) isn't a good enough friend of yours for you to be able to ask him to find out if this other guy has any interest in you.
Maybe it's most wise to consider this as a bus that drove past before you reached the bus-stop. It may be a nice bus, but you're too late to catch it.
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