Our expert says:
I understand your distress and puzzlement, but as you'll understand, we can't answer the major questions you have --- maybe even he might not be capable of being honest enough, even with himself, to answer them. But this would be a good time to get him into marriage counselling --- not with a determination to save the marriage at all costs, but to understand what has been and still is happening, and to enable you boh to make more sensible and wise decisions about the future. YOu need to take all precautions to retain your HIV- status. But remember he is facing a situation he freelly chose to create, disregarding your feelings and even safety ; so your needs, safety and happiness must be the primary aim of any counselling.
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