Our expert says:
Sadly, if there's significant fighting even before the marriage, its unlikely to stop after it. Sometimes marriage counselling can help, but often the cheater sees nothing wrong with what he or she is doing. Typical, too, of a cheating spouse like your husband to be ridiculously suspicious of an innocent partner, to the point that they may help significantly to make it come true.
Why is your husband being allowed to have such double standards, to complain about the little you have done and to ignore all that he has done against the marriage ?
Do try to persuade him to join you in seeing a marriage counsellor, and if he refuses, at least see a counsellor for myour own sake, to work out what would be best for you and the children, and how to go about sorting this complex mess out.
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