Our expert says:
Well, we run a sort of Lost and Found dept for people who ar elosing it, I suppose ! :} I wonder, from your description, what's really happening. Are you perhaps being rather needy and demanding and high maintenance ? That's enough to frighten off most men, is is generally based on aspects of your upbringing and unrealistic expectations of what others should do for you. If, and you seem to recognize this as the primary problem, it is you who are too readily spoiling for a fight --- maybe first see a good local counsellor / therapist, preferably for CBT ( Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy ) to change your unrealistic expectations, and to feel more secure and with more self-esteem, and thus ion a stronger position to make a success of this or any other relationship. NOT dealing with this now, could mean that you just leave this guy, and then do the same thing with the next one.
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