Our expert says:
Her "sick", like her complaints of headache, may be ways of evading difficulties at work or lsewhere in her life, and she would benefit from some realistic CBT style counselling to sort out this maladaptive pattern before it becomes too firm a habit. And when she gets "sick" it is HER task to cheer herself up and get out of it --- your hard efforts are rewarding her for being "sick" and discouraging her from being otherwise.
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